2016

It’s 2016, I am a mother, and I am homeowner.  My life has morphed into this huge list of responsibilities.   I have a rental property, a new demanding job, and I plan on starting a graduate program in the Fall.   You never imagined the things you wanted would weigh you down so much, or…

Baby

I recently had a baby!!!!  😳 It has change me drastically….  I had an emergency c-section, suffered postpartum depression, had a seizure, and failed at breastfeeding.  After my delivery I was alone most of my recovery. All in all it was an emotionally  and physically draining experience.  However, through it all I am grateful for…

New Life

I am on the verge of being a mother. This the one thing I never saw happening to me. As I prepare to bring a person into the world, I find myself questioning everything…. Life, relationships, and goals. My belief that being a parent is a BIG deal drives my everyday decision making. This will…

Better Than A Birthday Card

Today is the birthday of someone who means the world to me. I am writing this post as a replacement for his birthday card. Here is my rendition: Happy Birthday my love. I pray you are blessed with many more. You have been my pillar of strength for the past three years. I want to…

Whitney Houston

Today, the memorial service for the legendary Whitney Houston was held in her hometown of Newark, NJ. It was a private service requiring invites which, ensured to protect the intimacy of the occasion. The attendees included a plethora of A-list celebrities from a variety of fields in entertainment. The service honored Whitney in a dignified…

Real Love

A conversation I had last night inspired this post.  People fall in love for many different reasons.  Financial love, physical love, or mental love.  Financial love is a love stemming from greed.  It’s not pure and often times when the money is gone it’s hard to keep that love.  Secondly, there is the physical love…

For His Eyes

To the one who made me feel less than perfect The one who intentionally broke my heart The one who used me and try to tear me apart The one who disrespected me The one who lied and never cared The one who took me for granted The one I thought was the one The…

New Phone

I have a new phone! Adjusting to the swipe texting. Overall I am pleased. 🙂

It’s funny

Okay, I finally hit a speed bump in this current relationship of mine. It’s strange when you care about some else more than yourself. This man has created a huge change in my heart. I love him beyond belief and this realization occurred at the thought of being without him. Unknowingly, It’s funny………….

Job Searching

Recently, a lot of folks have asked me to help write their resumes. I am no career advisor or coach however, I have experience with resume writing. This blog will serve as a miniature guide to creating a good resume. Step 1: Search for a target job. This will be the guiding light for creating…

Unintentional Heartache

When you truly love someone some things they say or do can be hurtful.  This pain is at times caused unintentionally.  People often say they have no regard for what others think of them.  However, if you love someone at some degree you care about their thoughts/feelings towards you.  Honesty regarding this places you at…